Bonham Exchange in San Antonio
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San Antonio, Bexar County, Texas, US
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Site: http://www.bonhamexchange.com/
- Monday:Closed
- Tuesday:Closed
- Wednesday:8PM–2AM
- Thursday:8PM–2AM
- Friday:8PM–2AM
- Saturday:8PM–2AM
- Sunday:3PM–2AM
Terrible terrible club. If ur under 21 don’t go anywhere near anyone who had or has alcohol because they assume the worst. Got thrown out with my bro cuz he was near me when I was drinking and I’m of age and he wasn’t but he was near me so he got thrown out. Even though I didn’t give him any alcohol and he was completely sober. Asked for a sobriety test for him and they wouldn’t breathalyze him, just straight up kicked me and him out. Security guards are super rude, stuck up and wouldn’t let me leave until I signed the “banned for 30 days” paperwork for providing a minor alcohol, and threatened to all the cops on me if I didn’t sign the paperwork. When I asked for the camera footage on his body camera of me giving him alcohol he said “it wasn’t recording” so it’s his word against mine. If you are underage don’t even show up it’s not worth the 20 dollars, you’ll get kicked out within minutes even though it’s 18+
I have been going here for the last 6 years with my best friend and we have both had an amazing time EVERY SINGLE TIME WE GO!!! By now we have made some amazing friendships and connections with some of the staff and by far one of the best experiences here has been with one of the bartenders Fernanda!!
This place is one of a kind…if you want to dance around 50 year old men and obese women this is def your scene. $4 doubles on a Friday night, so no complaints there…but omg I feel like I’m in a dream here…I’ve never wanted to throw up but simultaneously party more at the same time in my life, but here’s the spot
We unfortunately attempted to view a much anticipated drag show. We were not advised that we would be limited to where we could stand upon paying for admission. Upon entering area where admission was held there were numerous empty seat and areas - we stumbled upon an area where a pillar blocked and provided access to us viewing the upcoming show. We were then advised we could not stand there after paying $20 per person =$80 — we were refused a refund and stated we should know where we could stand 🤣 — please do your homework before visiting
I started going to the Bonham Exchange at 18 years old. Since then, Ive been to nightclubs all over the US, in Asia, and Europe. The Bonham is absolutely one of the best. I got a chance to go back last night. Its been 18 years and its still magic. And the DJ played my song!
The security guards at this place is gonna end up getting this club shut down and their security company in trouble. There are things security guards can and cant do, they arent police officers. They cant legally ask someone for their ID and if that person refuses, security cant do anything but escort them out and thats it!! Security cannot ask for ID because they have no business asking anyways, they cannot hold onto anyones ID, failure to ID with a security guard is not a crime. Another thing is that security guards need to actually see something happen THEMSELVES! They cant go based off what an employee says, otherwise they cant legally do anything. Theres no probable cause, Get better security that think they arent cops, at the end of the day its all about observe & report. Another thing when it comes down to security doing pat downs on males and having bags searched, the establishment needs to have signs posted stating bags will be searched and guys will be patted down
Surprisingly, as busy as the place is they really keep up with keeping those bathrooms clean and stocked. The music is top 40 and NEVER CHANGES. Same songs every single time. Every room is the same kind of music. For a gay club there isnt much fun music like 80s or techno. Just the same thumping jump music. One Calvin Harris Feat after another. Also for a gay bar I like to play a game called Spot A Gay Person. I usually average about 4. NO LIE. Mostly a lot of Middle Eastern dudes trying to grind up on any female in sight. Go with a posse. Drink before you go because the drinks are only strong if you order it that way. No Dress Code. DJM3 is the best.
I was patted down by armed security prior to entry and counted four armed guards patrolling the inside. Ive been to gay bars in NYC, Chicago, Atlanta, New Orleans, San Francisco, Detroit, Milwaukee and Dallas. This was the first time Ive ever felt unsafe inside an LGBT bar.
Absolutely love it here. Great people awesome music and really good drink specials!! The bonham is like family and place where you can go and feel comfortable. Their security is amazing as well and they make sure everyone is safe. So if your looking for a new Saturday night spot this is definitely the place to be!!!
It was pretty decent. I went with a friend last Friday during fiesta. It was fun as a minor and i didn’t feel like I needed to drink to have fun. It did kinda feel dead until after midnight and didn’t really feel like a *gay* bar because every guy had a girl he wasn’t grinding on but. ¯_(ツ)_/¯. There also didn’t seem to be anyone my age.
The bouncers and security guards are extremely rude and unprofessional. I went one night and had my 1.5-inch pocket knife with me. Threw it away, UNDERSTANDABLY. Safety first. That’s extremely respectable. When leaving the club, I was looking at the top of the trash to see if the knife was still there to see if I could snag it. The bouncer began SCREAMING that I was “reaching for the box cutter! He’s reaching for the box cutter!!!” Causing a huge scene and being extremely dramatic and unprofessional. The security guard gripped his gun on his belt and told me to step away from the trash can and patted me down, then told me to leave or I’d be arrested. Really? It’s one thing to be safe and protect patrons. It’s a completely different thing to cause a huge scene in front of other guests entering the club. Absolutely appalling behavior.
Visited Saturday 12/28/13. A 15 year New Yorker, I grew up in San Antonio and remember the Bonham as a laid back, welcoming club with great music for dancing, not for posing and looking good. The welcoming, laid back part is still true but I was very disappointed with the music. All three rooms felt like mostly rap/hip-hop. Why have 3 rooms if youre not going to vary the music. When the DJ would mix in good music, he would play maybe 20 seconds of it, then switch to 20 seconds of another song. Yes, your mixing skills are impressive, and very welcome when switching songs. But how about you play the whole song?I dont think its just that Im old (44). When I was in the front room, where the dance floor is smallest but the music is best, when 80s music came on, everyone got on the floor, including girls who had to be in their 20s.Great venue, cover and drink prices. Too bad about the music.
I haven’t been in there since I was 18 and that’s been ages lol but it’s always crowded with wait at door. I drove someone there since they going to drink plus my son and told him it’s a place to have fun he agreed saying it wasn’t just fun it was going to be a great memory for him. Everyone should have it once and they’ll love it
Always fun, especially on Fridays and Saturdays. During the week only the down stairs bar is open. The old guy taking the money on the weekend though, seems to have a bit of an attitude. The door person outside of the club checking IDs told me to show the guy inside, taking the money, my Texas Drivers Licence showing Im a veteran. On Fridays there is no cover for veterans and military. I did as was told and the guy still charged full price. He says, I cant see that, besides thats not a military ID. My thinking was, Im just doing what your door person told me to do?! And its not like someone can forge their Texas License to say youre a veteran. I ended up showing him my military ID and he gave me cash back. The whole thing though was just real aggravating, and not a very good first impression. Besides the grumpy guy, it was a blast. Karaoke on Wed is nice and relaxed as well!
On Friday july 12 at midnight. There was a 10 minute wait to get in. Most of the crowd was under the age of 21 or barely over. The place was huge, many different themed rooms, but was not the type of crowd for dancing your face off. If you prefer a crowded dance floor, this is not your place. If you dont mind being in the spotlight because so few people are dancing, then this is your place.
Great place to go especially if youre 18 and up. But, if younger than 21 there is a 15 dollar charge which is kinda high. But, theres music for everyone from EDM to Rap to Latin. Really good set up and meet a lot of fun and interesting people. The only thing is restrooms are kinda small and packed but what club restroom isnt.
I went a couple years ago for the masquerade ball with my girlfriend and I had the best time ever. Shopping for the outfits was just as fun as the club. I would do it again. Somebody please let me know when they will be having another one. This time I will be taking my fiance(a guy). Lets see how this goes.It was just way too crowded, and lots of stairs. I was way too intoxicated for heels + stairs. That = exhaustion + shoe removal
Three stories full of fun and merriment! Theres literally something for everyone! Dance floors, a pool table room, another dance floor, AND an outdoor space? Plus $3 dollar happy hour drinks ( $6 for top shelf?!) Who can beat that? Great for a night of lgbt fun! Theres also a bag and coat check in, so theyll guard your stuff while you enjoy yourself.
This place is awesome. I loved the room that played only house/trance/other EDM. I was very happy to find a place that played our kind of music. Especially on our first trip out on the town. We tipped the bartender fabulously and our service went from good, even though she was pretty busy, to fantastic. I will not just be back, but will frequent this place as much as I can.
***disclaimer: do NOT try to bring your eye drops in here. They will freak out on you. According to one employee, “3 drops could kill someone.” Expect to just have dry eyes all night long.Now, if you’ve accepted you won’t be able to see most of the night because they took your eye drops, this place is pretty neat. There are tons of rooms, three floors, tons of bars. It’s cool that this place has such a long history in San Antonio.Vicki in the Wonder Woman bar is awesomeeeee. I love her.
I enjoyed this place. Been living in SA my whole life and went here for the first time last night. We got there at 8, so glad we did because when we left around 11ish there was a line to get in! We didnt have to pay cover.I like that its lgbtq+ friendly, I didnt notice any fights or aggression. Security patted down my male partner and used a wand on me.We liked the floor at the top, the DJ was good and theres plenty of space for everyone.Next time we will visit the game room.
Its technically a gay bar, but you will find all sorts of people here. Like a lot of clubs in general, there is a mix of girlfriends who get dressed up to go out on the town, guys on the prowl, and people who just like to drink and dance. Sometimes, it can feel slightly ghetto, but the cool architecture and renovated warehouse feel is unique to San Antonio clubs in this area.There are several different rooms, so you can choose where to hang out based on your music (and crowd) tastes. Note that it is not really near a strip of clubs, bars, or restaurants, so you will probably need to taxi/drive.
Def the best club downtown. Its got enjoyable music for everyone. Some of the bartenders make skimpy shots so access every bar in the joint and find the best one. Theres about 10 different bars inside! Sometimes people selling tacos and pizza will be coming through later in the evening. They dont close until 3am on weekends, although bars legally have to close @ 2 in Texas. Its definitely a favorite between me and my friends so go have yourself a good night 💙😁
Everyone is so friendly. The only place I go to dance. It its safe, and Im free to dance and dress as eccentric as I want. Open to gay, straight, all races, all gender variants, all ages.I wish they played more EDM. I normally leave at 11 or 12 as it gets too grindy and ghetto.Gogo dancers seem to push me off the stage to stretch. I highly enjoy dancing on the stage.
I had been going to this place every weekend untill one of the barrenders got my friends baned because she “saw all of them in a stall (they are very small stalls) consuming drugs” I called the manager and she was very rude calling me a liar putting words in my mouth that I never said! I’ve met some very great people here but never again going back! Horrible staff 😢After reading a few reviews the real problem is the bartenders!
I heard great things about this after hours club. A friend of mine & I got there at 2:27 to finish our last night out in San Antonio, the door man said no one else could come in and that we were to leave immediately. Very rude & unfriendly. My friend and I were going to purchase non alcoholic drinks inside as well as the cover charge. It is advertised online that they are open till 3am, not 2:27. Won’t be going back. I am a bartender myself, we don’t close down the bar early; we stay till the end. Very unprofessional.
They dont play the best music seem to stay around the same genre most of the time , but with the right crowd youd have fun . Theyre in between very pricy and Inexpensive. On certain nights not sure about every night but the night I did the bathrooms of course were digusting makes you scared to sit down or touch anything . Its not nearly perfect , but it has it fun outgoing experience to make up for it .
I really don’t like the idea that men are the only ones being patted down. I asked the Female security why they didnt pat down women and she said because men wear heavier clothing . I guess next time im gonna wear a short dress and see if that is really the case. Sexist
My friend and I went to this club and we went to the restroom (they weren’t labeled) at least from what we saw, but this bouncer came up to us immediately as we entered the restroom and started harassing us telling us a ‘woman’ can’t be in the restroom I went ahead and explained to him that I thought this was a ‘gay’ club and the I thought the restrooms were gender neutral and he started arguing with me, trying to fight me in the club! People even got involved because of how much of big deal he was making it was extremely embarrassing and insulting. I even told the man that I was not trying to argue with him but he proceeded to try to fight me even told me to ‘shut up and get out of here’ he followed me all the way down and I went to speak to a ‘manager’ who was no help at all. Very upsetting that this club does not care about the LGBT community. The only care about taking your money. Please take your business elsewhere.
Well i am not sure what the problem is but the manager lee every tiime i visit he always gives me a mean look likes he wants to fight me i dont know why perhapps that is his sad personality or his sad life overall get over it lee and move on life is too short enjoy it
This used to be primarily a gay club but because the dancing space (3 floors of it with different music on each floor) and music is so awesome, it has turned into a mix of heterosexual couples, singles and gay people.Ive seen all age ranges there from 20 somethings to 40 somethings and everyone seems to get along. We have ended more than one pub crawl at this place and have never seen or experienced any problems with staff or other patrons.Its REALLY a fun place and great for dancing!
Someone needs to let the restroom attendant know that tips are earned, because it is absolutely ridiculous to ask for a tip for ONE MINT THE SIZE OF A QUARTER! As I grabbed one he AGGRESSIVELY grabbed my hand and FORCED ME to drop it. Idk if he was homophobic or what, but ASKING for a tip and being UNNECESSARILY AGGRESSIVE, WONT GET YOU ANYTHING.
It used to be my favorite club. I still go often. The shots even though they are not super expensive the quantity is less( smart way of screwing up people). Music is good and their non gay dance floor is nice.But lately I have been hearing some credit cards gets declined. Looks like they have been cheating with the amount charged to the card. One of my card got declined and I used a different card which went though. But sad thing is the amount charged were different on both cards.I think next time if I have to go I will use cash.
The staff is wonderful! They took such good care of us. The one bartender was working really hard, it took him about 10-15 minutes to get our drinks but he was fast and made sure he got the customers according to who came up first. We had so much fun. The club itself is awesme. Theres three sections and each was playing a different genre of music. Well definitely be coming back 😊
I was asked at the door by security how many drinks I had before entry and I responded enough then he asked how many drinks to be specific, so I told him I had just arrived from the Marine Corps ball so I had about 4 beers and he said Im gonna deny your entry. Shocked. Im dissapointed I came here. He probably doesnt like military or maybe he was just bothered when i said i had enough. I definitely didnt mean it in a bad way though
From my own personal experinces...best bar and dance bar in San Antonio. Lgbt friendly. Its consider a gay bar...but on average its mixed. But dif consider one of the main gay bars in the area. Has a huge dance floor...in addition 2 more dance area on 3 levels. The best drink special. Hip hop latin on top level. EDM on 2nd level and more EDM and some top 40 1st level main dance floor. 18yr welcome.
Ill just start this from the first moment I walked into the door. I had never been here before and didnt know the rules so I had a cigarette in hand. I was rudely yelled at that, You cant smoke inside. So i was going to exit and finish my cigarette, but being the gentleman I was raised as I held the door open for the women entering the building. I was rudely yelled at again that I could not even smoke on the porch and I needed to go outside. Naturally I oblidged. All I can say is, theres a better way to talk to people than like theyre garbage.
First time here and hadnt been to a club in a minute. My hen and cokes....consistently strong! Music....ehhhh, but that didnt stop me from bustin a move or two. Really enjoyed the Mexican music and seeing the dancing and excitement that was displayed. People were uhhhh awkward or on their phones on the side all night. I was super confused by this...come out your house to then just sit on your phone?? OK? Most other people drunk and happy. Atmosphere felt safe. Id visit again.
Hit or miss, too many people. Security needs to be more involved since there is too many people there. Always extremely dirty in there too. Nothing is clean. let that be a warning. The front staff is horrible at everything they do, when you are about to go in, let that really be the first impression of this place because your impression based on just the front staff alone is really going to be the reality of this hyped up place.
I liked dancing and having fun here. What I didnt like was that I felt really ignored and almost discriminated by a bartender. Im not gay and was ordering a drink for my husband and I and tried getting his attention several times, he just looked at me and then went on to serve other people that came in after me. I couldnt believe how he was being so nice to everyone else but a total douche to me. It was already 1:55 and I knew he was not going to serve me, I tried smiling, asking super politely..nothing. After a while when no one was ordering he said what? And took my order. When my husband paid him the exact amount he gave it to him kind of folded in half , the bartender got PISSED. He yelled for everyone to hear: dont f&$+ing fold your Fu&#ing money! While he straightened the dollars very vigorously and threw them in the register. What the hell???? Oh and he was giving a lot of limes to everyone, like more than needed. We ordered 2 tequila shots and got no limes , and as I was about to ask for some he looked at me straight in the eye and said no more limes, while the bucket beside him was full with them. Seriously??? What did I do to him to be treated that way? I will definitely come back here to dance but I will make sure to stay away from his bar.
What ever you do, make sure you don’t stumble. My wife accidentally knocked a drink over when she went to hug me and they had our eye on us pretty hard after that and shortly after, they actually kicked us out. Drinks are really small compared to the price and crowd is awkward when it comes to dancing. Garbage place and bar, save your money and don’t go.
I wish I could leave 0 stars because we came for my littles cousins 1st club experience my older cousin who was over 21 got stopped and we got thrown out because she was stumbling but I m pretty sure they have never walked in heels this was her first time walking in heels and they threw us out with attitude might I add so I will never be going back to the Bonham ever and I encourage you to not go either rude people
Music good just to many teens some drinking .. To big for small croud i went 2 weeks i like it but need more adult ppl i wanted to go tomorrow for my bday but seen teens was not to much to choose or dance or just stand there looking how do the get the alcoholic beverages nd then the officer do nothing
Big place with multiple djs. Usually pops around midnight. I wouldnt recommend minors trying to drink in this establishment as they are very good in catching them. It is 18+ but of course minors have to pay more id think its $10 and 21+ is $5. You follow them on fb they usually have ways for you to get in free with a passcode. Fav bartender is david z. Makes awesome shots. There is an outside patio for drinking amd smoking along with an outside bar.
STUPID FRICKIN SECURITY LIKE THIS ISNT A HIGH SCHOOL PROM. After spending 20 bucks on a drink which Im sure the chick was charging others with it... I let my GIRLFRIEND have TWO sips but she was underage.... sorry, arrest me for two sips... She didnt want it anymore, but the Securtiy was not having it. With a full jack and coke I insisted on tossing it away and just having the rest of the night with her with no drink. We ended up getting kicked out anyway. Seriously needs to loosen up...
The bartenders here add fake charges to your ticket so be careful dont leave tips on your card and keep your receipt. We had a 19 ticket and the bartender added a zero to our tip after being rude and lying to a member of our party. Now we have a big bill and we never even had an open tab.He had longish hair and a mustache he needs to be fired for being fraudulent he was working the front left room on Friday August 7th so if u remember him keep in mind he is a theif . We usually enjoy going there but never again. Be careful out there.
Total reviews rating 4
199 Reviews for Bonham Exchange 2023:
Review №1
2022-04-01Awesome place to go dance, drink and hang out with friends. First time seeing a drag show upstairs and it was fabulous!! Good to see that the dance floor is open again.
Review №2
2022-05-25A super fun and safe environment! As a woman I had the most fun here and felt the most safe. I appreciate that there is security that checks everyones bags and pockets. I also appreciate that there are security guards/officers within the club. It makes a night out more for fun and carefree for women.
Review №3
2022-07-10It was my first time at this club, loved it so much… until a security gard pulled my friend and I aside and told us “give us ur id & come w me” all bc our M’s on our hands we’re wiping off, keep in mind we were there literally 3hrs dancing, sweating, and washing our hands constantly… ofc our M’s are going to start to come off slowly! So disappointed with the staff, so rude to my friend & I for no reason!
Review №4
2022-03-20Been here a few times. Different vibes on different evening Decent drinks reasonable priced, friendly service. Several different areas with a variety of music playing, multiple drink service locations, as well as a food available back patio.Very diverse crowd.Fun place to hang out with people you know or meet new friends
Review №5
2022-04-11A historical mansion turned into an absolute hangout. They certainly know how to get down and wild at Bonham. They had a club scene downstairs and with multiple hang out rooms. Upstairs they were having an all out drag contest party
Review №6
2022-03-08Very fun atmosphere! If you like to dance go here. There’s a lot of options with a variety of music which is great. The cons are that there’s a cover charge and the food that is provided by the vendors in the patio is expensive.
Review №7
2022-04-24We came from Houston and found this club. It was so fun love the different variety of music. Everybody just dancing and having fun. I recomend this place if your looking for a good time.
Review №8
2022-04-05An all inclusive club, meaning everyone from all walks of life are welcome! The female bartenders are always great and know how to make awesome drinks. Fair prices for the mixed drinks. Three floors, each playing something a little different so you get choices as to where you want to be. Great atmosphere, just be careful, I’ve been plenty of times but on of those times there was a few weirdos I noticed following me and my friends all night, and my drink was spiked. Thankfully my friends were around and I got home safely.Although I had ONE bad experience, (not the clubs fault) I would still give this place 6 stars if possible :)
Review №9
2022-02-06Went for the first time last night. It was very fun. I’m definitely going back. Good music good people. The drinks are a little pricey. Paid $24 for two drinks but other than that it’s a great place to have fun
Review №10
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